♥Daily Blog: You

the same aura surrounds...something's bad will come...

i feel...

idk. no matter what...he just can't help talking to ladies...why is it so hard...to stay faithful to words...to stay faithful with the mind and heart...with the exterior...

only true love can fix it all and open the eyes of the blind...

yet...he's still blind...could it be that...i'm not the person for him? bc...if i were...he wouldn't even think about or still do...what he had done before...bc if i were...he wouldn't even want to come close to hurting me...or see me worry or think about things that shouldn't be thought

"You can only change another person if they truly want to change and have requested your help in making the change. "

It is the desire...to want for someone...to want someone happy...bc u love that person...it is that desire...that can help you be a better person...

You can say you change...but...your actions portray yourself differently. Actions do speak louder than words. Words do play a role, however.

We may admit it or not, there are times in our lives that we don't keep what we say. Some are small things, while most are big things. As an example, you often say to someone "I love you", but you don't show her how much you do. Or you often say "I missed you" but you don't even bother to call and say "Hello".

In this world, words alone is not enough. If you really mean what you said, show it. But remember that life is not also only about actions. You also need some words. They blend in together. Without the other, the other is not complete.

So why can't he see that? Why can't he understand where i'm coming from when i say that i don't feel that he misses me or loves me....has he re-examined what he does...puts himself in my shoes to see what i would see from what he does things?
or...if not...perhaps...this is what...our bond really is

I look to see the connection in a man's actions. Are they putting as much of an effort into the relationship? Do I feel that they really feel what they say they are feeling? And to a fault, I am skeptical at best that they truly mean what they say. Our best ally is our gut feeling - and we are very guilty of ignoring it. When we ignore it we are destined to get hurt.