♥ Daily Blog: Dream

I was browsing through my old files from seventh grade and eighth grade and happened to find this file. I realized that these were some of the list of qualities that my dream guy has...(took them from online (: )

PART 1: "Mixed Signals? Not Exactly" (this part applies to me)

1. When a girl says she likes you, she wants you to ask her out.

2.When u break a girls heart, she'll still feel it 3 years later

3.When a girl just stares deep into your eyes, she's HOPING that your hers and only hers ( it shows how much she cares: eyes never lie)

4.When a girl is quiet, millions of things are running through her mind.

5.When a girl is not arguing, she is thinking deeply.

6.When a girl looks at you with eyes full of questions, she is wondering how long you will be around.

7.When a girl answers, "I'm fine, " after a few seconds, she is not at all fine.

8.When a girl stares at you, she is wondering why you are so wonderful.

9.When a girl lays her head on your chest, she is wishing for you to be hers forever.

10.When a girl calls you everyday, she is seeking for your attention.

11.When a girl wants to see you everyday, she wants to be pampered.

12.When a girl says, "I'll love you forever, " she means it.

13.When a girl says that she can't live without you, she has made up her mind that you are her future.

14.When a girl says, "I miss you, " no one in this world can miss you more than that

15.When a girl is mean to you after a breakup, she wants you back, but she's scared she'll get hurt and knows your gone forever

PART 2: Not Every Guy is Nice and Truthful. Dream Guy Will Have These Qualities, Though.

1.When a guy calls u he wants to be with you

2.When a guy is quiet, He's listening to you...

3.When a guy is not arguing, He realizes he's wrong

4.When a guy says, "I'm fine, " after a few minutes, he means it

5.When a guy stares at you, he wishes you would care about him and wonders if you do?

6.When you're laying your head on a guy's chest, he has the world

7.When a guy calls you everyday, he is in love

8.When a (good) guy say he loves you, he means it

9.When a guy says he can't live without you, he's with you till your done

10.When a guy says, "I miss you, " he misses you more than you could have ever missed him or anything else

PART 3: FANTASY YEAH. He's out there...somewhere...just hiding =/

1-touch their waist
2-talk to them
3-share secrets
4-give her your jacket
5-kiss them slowly
6-hug her
7-hold her
8-laugh with her
9-invite her somewhere
10-let her be with you when you're with your friends
11-smile with her
12-take pics with her
13-pull her onto your lap
14-when she says she loves you more, deny it. fight back
15-when her friends say i love her more than you, deny it. fight back and hug her tight so she cant get to her friends. it makes her feel loved
16-always hug her and say i love you when you see her
17-kiss her unexpectedly
18-HUG HER FROM BEHIND AROUND THE WAIST
19-tell her shes beautiful not sexy!
20-tell her the way you feel about her!
21-kiss her on the lips
22-kiss her on her forhead
23-kiss her on top of her head
24-make her feel loved
25-we might deny it but we accutally like and kinda want you to get us things
26-DON'T LIE TO HER.
27-DON'T CHEAT ON HER.
28-take her anywhere she wants
29-txt messege or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at school, and how much you miss her
30-be there for her when ever she needs you, & even when she doesn't need you, just be there so she'll know that she can always count on you
31. Hold her close when she's cold and she can hold you too.
32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the tip of her nose; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss them).
34. While in the movie, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.
35. Dont ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you're mad. If shes upset, comfort her
36. When people diss her, stand up for her.
37. Look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her.
38. Lay down under the stars and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, Link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.
39. When walking next to each other grab her hand.
40. When you hug her hold her in your arms as long as possible
41. Call her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
42. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
43. Take her for long walks at night
44. Dedicate a song to her.
45. Always Remind her how much you love her.


PART 4: AWW

Body: Holding hands

Girls : If you want to hold his hand, gently bump into it a couple of times.
Guys : Grab it if it happens more than once.

Cuddling

Girls : When you want to cuddle with him, tell him you're cold
Guys : Automatically move closer to her.

Movies

Girls : During a movie, if he puts his arm around you, tilt your head on his shoulder
Guys : Lift her chin up and kiss her.

Loving each other

Guys : When she tells you she loves you, look deep into her eyes, give her a peck on the lips, and tell her you love her too... And mean it.

Laying below the stars

Girls : When you're both laying under the stars, put your head on his chest and close your eyes as you listen to his steady heart beat
Guys : Whisper in her ear and link your hands with hers.

PART 5: Heart melting words but full of truth and meaning

If one day u feel like crying.... call me. I dont promise that i will make u laugh, but i can cry with u. If one day u want to run away-- dont be afraid to call me. I dont promise to ask u to stop......but i can run with u. If one day u dont want to listen to anyone.....call me. I promise to be there for u but also promise to remain quiet. But one day if u call......and there is no anwser.....come fast to see me. Perhaps i need you. Remember, dont ever leave the one u love for the one u like, because the one u like will leave u for the one they love.

PART 6: TEHE (:

When she wants to kiss
1.she stares into your eyes biting their lip.
2. she always wrap her arms around you.
3. she plays with her hands, shirts, pants, etc. just waiting for you to make the move.

When he wants to kiss
1. he holds your hand and always play with it.
2. he stares into your eyes for a long time.
3. he always tell you how much he loves you and that he will never let you go.

PART 7: Written From a Guy

Dream Guy does agree to all :] Though he has more of his own :]]]

Why do guys like girls?

1. They will always smell good even if it's just shampoo.
2. The way their heads always find the right spot on our shoulder.
3. How cute they look when they sleep.
4. The ease in which they fit into our arms .
5. The way they kiss you and all of a sudden everything is right in the world.
6. How cute they are when they eat.
7. The way they take hours to get dressed but in the end it makes it all worth while.
8. Because they are always warm even when its minus 30 outside.
9. The way they look good no matter what they wear.
10. The way they fish for compliments even though you both know that you think she's the most beautiful girl on this earth.
11. How cute they are when they argue.
12. The way her hand always finds yours.
13. The way they smile.
14. The way you feel when you see their name on the call ID after you just had a big fight.
15. The way she says "lets not fight anymore" even though you know that an hour later....
16. The way that they kiss after you have had a fight.
17. The way they kiss you when you say "I love you".
18. Actually...Just the way they kiss you...
19. The way they fall into your arms when they cry.
20. Then the way they apologize for crying over something that silly.
21. The way they hit you and expect it to hurt.
22. Then the way they apologize when it does hurt (even though we don't admit it).
23. The way they say "I miss you".
24. The way you miss them.
25. The way their tears make you want to change the world so that it doesn't hurt her anymore...

Yet regardless if you love them, hate them, wish they would die or know that you would die without them it matters not. Because once in your life, whatever they were to the world they become everything to you. When you look them in the eyes, traveling to the depths of their souls and you say a million things without trace of a sound, you know that your own life is inevitable consumed within the rhythmic beatings of her very heart. We love them for a million reasons, no paper would do it justice. It is a thing not of the mind but of the heart.
A feeling.
Only felt.

PART 8: SWEET

He knows his place :]

1. DON'T FORCE HER TO DO ANYTHING.
[She won't trust you if you do & it'll be awkward]

2. Grab her hand when you walk next to each other.
[She always gets butterflies when you do it; it makes her feel like you want her]

3. When standing, wrap your arms around her.
[It makes her feel like you really love her.]

4. Cuddle with her.
[She'll feel like your there for her]

5. Hug her from behind
[It makes her feel special]

6. Write little notes.
[She smiles. They're cute; The end]

7. Compliment her Honestly.
[No girl likes a liar and no girl likes a person who lies about it when you compliment her]

8. When you hug her, hold her in your arms as long as possible.
[It makes her feel wanted]

9. Be super sweet to her. = )
[All girls like a super sweet guy]

10. Call her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
[She'll go to bed with a smile]

11. Comfort her when she cries.
[She'll feel like you'll ALWAYS be there for her]

12.Wipe away her tears
[It'll show you'll always be there]

13. Love her with all your heart.
[Not with your brain... or your ......]

14. Pick her up and flirt with her (she'll scream and say put me down but really she loves it).
[It's true boys!!!]

15. Be a gentleman (hold the door for her).
[Every girl loves a guy who is a gentleman]

16. DON'T let your friends talk trash about her, it'll get back 2 her
[& it'll make her feel like you aren't really there for her]

17. Take her for a long walk at night!
[She just wants to be alone. & that's not always bad. The world can be annoying sometimes & you just need to be alone.]

18. When it's cold outside hold her close
[You want her to be happy & she's happy in your arms]

19. Draw on or rub her back as she is trying to rest or sleep
[This just feels good!] {not with a pen you idiot, with your finger}

PART 9: If He Likes You :]

1. He sits by you whenever he can

2. He take things from you and hides them

3. He makes eye contact as much as possible

4. He messes with your hair

5. He laugh at you (in a good way, only dream guy knows how :])

6. He asks about your day

7. When he and you have play fights, he always argue, no matter what

8. He sneaks up on you

9. His friends ask if you and him are going out

10. He tells you "I love you"

PART 10: 32 Ways to Make a Girl Smile (32 out of many)

1. Tell her she is beautiful

2. Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.

3. Hug her from behind

4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.

5. Wrestle with her :)

6. Don't go hang out with you ex when shes not with you, you might not realize how badly it hurts her.

7. If you're talking to another girl, when you're done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her.... let her know she's yours and they aren't.

8. Write her notes or call her just to say "hi"

9. Introduce her to your friends . . . as your girlfriend.

10. Play with her hair.

11. Pick her up (she loves it)

12. Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn't like it

13. Make her laugh

14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.

15. If she's mad at you, kiss her.

16. If you care about her, then TELL HER

17. Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal(she'll hug it every time she goes to sleep), jewelry (she'll treasure it forever), and one of his t-shirts (she'll most likely wear it to bed).

18. Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you're alone.

19. Look her in the eyes and smile.

20. Hang out with her on weekends

21. Kiss her in the rain (girls love this)

22. Kiss her just for the heck of it

23. If your listening to music, let her listen too.

24. Remember her birthday and get her something, even if
its simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. it means all the world to HER.

25. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it, even if you don't (it'll make her happy.)

26. Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem
like it, but it does hurt her and makes her think you don't care so call even if you can only talk for a minute. Girls don't necessarily have to have hour-long conversations every night but its nice for us to hear your voice even for a quick hello.

27. Give her what she wants

28. Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.

29. Dont hug her friends or your friends that are girls cause she'll feel left out

30. Hang out with her whenever you are free and u should be free to hang with your girlfriend all the time

31. If u care about her...SHOW her!

32. HOLD HER IN UR ARMS AND WHISPER SOMETHING SWEET IN HER EAR.

PART 11: MEANING

Read Each One Carefully & Think About It a Second or Two

1. I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you..

2. No man or woman is worth your tears, & the one who is, won't make you cry.

3. Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

4. A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand & touches your heart.

5. The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can' t have them

6. Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.

7. To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.

8. Don't waste your time on someone, who isn't willing to waste their time on you.

9. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful.

10. Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened.

11. There's always going to be people that hurt you so what you have to do is keep on trusting & just be more careful about who you trust next time around.

12. Make yourself a better person & know who you are before you try & know someone else & expect them to know you.

13. Don't try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to.

PART 12: How Girls Flirt x]

1. She makes eye contact and smiles at you.
2. She hits you softly on the arm and laughs when you say something funny.
3. She flips her hair when she's talking to you.
4. She touches your arm when she talks to you.
5. She says, "No, I'm not telling you who I like!" with a big smile on her face.
6. She asks you who you like or who you would go out with seemingly interested.
7. When you go to the movies with a bunch of your friends and she is almost always next to you.
8. She criticizes you on a girl you like.
9. You catch her staring at you.
10. She plays with your hair or tries to put make up on you.
11. Her friends outside of school and in school know about you, and says she talks about you a lot.
12. She knows your phone number and address.
13. She will try and talk, and spend time with you as much as possible

PART 13: How Guys Flirt

1. He stares at you a lot.
2. He hits you a lot. (just play hitting )
3. He uses the first thing that pops into his head to start a conversation with you
4. He blew off his buds to go see a movie with you bc you couldn't get another girl pal to go and didn't want to go alone.
5. He tries to make you laugh anyway even if he gets hurt in the process
6. His voice gets softer ("Hey, you") whenever you two talk.
7. You hung up on him. He called you back.
8. You where invited by him to a group outing.
9. He called you to talk about nothing at all.
10. He imitates your laugh. OK, you do snort sometimes. Which makes you laugh even harder...
11. He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation
12. He sometimes stares straight into your eyes.
13. He uses every possible way to touch you (your hair, face, butt, thighs, etc.)

PART 14: To Every Guy rofls

A Reply to all these statements by a good classmate of mine
Although...ignoring the responses...i'm look at the "to every guy" part...my dream guy..i'm sure he means all

lol so my classmate can't be so sureee

To every guy that's said, "Sex CAN wait"
- Can it really?

To every guy that's said, "You're beautiful."
- What guy hasn't...

To every guy that was never too busy to drive across town to see her.
- Well, if she's hot, who wouldn't drive over. 0.0

To every guy that gives flowers and a card when she is sick.
- Oh yeah, some flowers and a piece of paper is gonna make the chick feel better.

To every guy who has given her flowers just because.
- Why give a flower which costs money when you can like iono, caminar en el parque with her.

To every guy that said he would die for her.
- Saying it is one thing, doing is another, Plus, who the hell tells someone they'll die for them anymore, and no, nice dudes don't say that. I should know. x)

To every guy that really would.
- Who wouldn't...

To every guy that took time to do what she wanted to do.
- Why "take time"? Sounds more like an obligatory thing to me then "hanging" with her.

To every guy that she cried in front of.
- Its missing: " and comforts her". The lack of these 3 words in that sentence = FAIL

To every guy that holds hands with her.
- I held my mom's hand when I was younger, does that count?

To every guy that kisses her with meaning.
- "With meaning", that can be interpreted several ways. :
1. You want her
2. You want her badly
3. You feel bad for not wanting her so you do so to make it look like you do
4. There is no number 4

To every guy that hugs her when she's sad.
- Wait, you try to get a feel off her before you try to ask her whats wrong? O.O,

To every guy that hugs her for no reason at all.
- Theres always a reason behind anything anyone does. Hugging someone "without reason" usually means:
1. She's hawt
2. Your self esteem is down, why not boost it up by physically being close to a chick?
3. Apparently, when she's sad. -.-

To every guy who would give their jacket up for her.
- I saw this in a movie once =]. But no, if he cared about her enough, he'd bring two jackets for himself and her, rather then play the having only one jacket and lending it to the chick card. <_<

To every guy that calls to make sure she got home safe.
- O.O, that doesn't make sense. Don't the guy drop the chick off at her house? Why would he need to call to make sure she's safe when he can see it. Unless, her parents are lik abusive and like, beats her. But how would calling her save her from that?

To every guy that would sit and wait for her for hours just to see her for ten minutes.
- Well, if she's worth it that much, why bother saying you waited for hours int he first place.

To every guy that would give his seat up.
- Yeah, thats such am incredible thing to do. I mean, now the chick sits, and the guy stands. Crazy, how does he do it. -.-

To every guy that just wants to cuddle.
- Cuddling, hmm, lets explore the reasons why you would do this.
1. Seriously, who wouldn't. =]
2. Its cold
3. Life sucks, so you decide to have contact with the opposite sex to make it just a little bit better.

To every guy that reassured her that she was beautiful no matter what..
- No matter what? So, you're basically having to lie now aren't you. If you value the girl in the first place, you wouldn't lie.

To every guy who told his secrets to her.
- Secrets are easy to tell, its which ones you tell that matter here.

To every guy that tried to show how much he cared through every word and every breath.
- Words are overrated like hell, its the action that counts.

To every guy that thought maybe this could be the one.
- Everyone thinks that, and we're usually greeted by the revelation that the one isn't who we thing could be, but its the one person you thought could never be.

To every guy that believed in her dreams.
- Believing in one's dream is nothing unless you help them achieve it..

To every guy that would have done anything so she could achieve them.
- Ah, there we go, But even if you do anything, are you smart enough to realize if you have to do everything, the dream is unattainable?

To every guy that never laughed at her when she told him her dreams.
- Who laughs at dreams, especially when its a serious one.

To every guy that walked her to her car.
- Why her car? Doesn't the guy drive. =p

To every guy that gave his heart.
- Everyone gives their hearts. Its metaphoric, so you can keep on doing it. Point is, it means nothing when its said. Now, how about giving up your real heart, a liver, bone marrow, or life?

To every guy who prays that she is happy even if you are not with her.
- In an idealistic world, everyone would want everyone happy. Guys who pray for only one chick usually want something else...like the rebound. <_<

PART 15: From A Friend of Mine

"Fact is, nice guys are all around. They just fail to realize one simple thing. That they should be themselves. But heck, if they can't realize that, they deserve to not be appreciated."

PART 16: Nice..

*Grab her neck when you kiss her, it's a real turn on.
Not her butt/waist/boobs.
• Call her babe / beautiful/ something else.
• Stay on the phone with her even if shes not saying anything.
• When she's mad hug her tight and don't let go then kiss her
• When she says she's ok dont believe it talk with her
• Never cheat on her because 10 yrs later she'll remember you as a cheater.
• Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her
• Call her before you go to sleep and when you wake up
• Treat her like a person and not something to show off for
• Tease her and let her tease you back.
• Stay up all night with her when she's sick.
• Watch her favorite movie with her.
• Give her the world.
• Let her wear your clothes.
• When she's bored and sad, hang out with her.
• Let her know she's important.
• Kiss her in the pouring rain.
• When she runs up at you crying, the first thing you say is;
"Who's ass am I kicking babe?"
• Don't just tell her you care about her, SHOW her
* never ever ask "dun u trust me?"
* havin lil westling/ticklin moments is a a great way 2 keep her entertained
* never ever make her choose between friends n u
* givin her little kisses is a great way of showin her she's special

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